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Find Singles near you! Matchmaking industry is developing rapidly making its way to online dating from offline matches. As Matchmaking Institute reports, the Matchmaking Circle will soon be the newest trend in matchmaking, so check it out! As experts say, such Circle gives your business exponential growth month after month while enriching women’s lives. In general, the Matchmaking Circle™ is an exclusive social club for women focusing on friendship, fun and the joys of being single while searching for a special man. This unique woman’s group has been tested and proven to be effective for both matchmaker and member. The concept for The Matchmaking Circle grew out of a desire by Dating Directions co-owners Susie Hardesty and Elizabeth Cobey-Piper to help successful, professional women ages 35 and over who have difficulty making successful matches on their own. (news source: Matchmaking Institute newsletter) I personally think it’s another type of “groups, clubs” Matchmakers are making to create a Social Networking aspect in dating. It’s been created and tested long ago and as we know works very well! Whatever you call it, this feature is already in all Dating and Social Networking Software that offer Matchmaking aspect. Don’t you think Matchmaking Industry is going the same path Online Dating went?
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What made me want to write something like this? Most of the time , I write about political and informative things to empower the next person on sharing information. This time around, I decided to target the emotions of people, because perhaps it can help someone pick their heart up and start over again with that special someone who will keep he or she feeling positive about their mate. In life, we gain relationship experience from our dating partners. Some experiences really leave a person feeling blue. Why so? Depending on how the relationship ends for whatever reason, feeling and emotions tend to suffer from depression. A person shouldn’t take it as the end of the world, just because the pair broke up. Look at it as a temporary feeling for the moment, which feelings eventually dies down to nothing over time. In the end, the experience you learned from, as well as feelings felt, should just be taken as a positive learning experience to help shape you in dealing with the next dating encounter with more maturity and judgment. From my personal experience with Badversity , I can say although at the time it made me bitter, I certainly had time to evaluate myself to see where I went wrong first, before pointing the finger at the woman. There were flaws within myself I didn’t notice back then. For years, I walked around with a stoned heart towards women, because I felt all women were the same. Although a majority of men and women are generically the same character wise, my past dating experiences have taught me a valuable lesson. The lesson learned was to correct first what needed to be worked on within my character, so I can potentially keep a woman attracted to me with longevity. How do I do so? Money is not everything in a relationship, because character and good will outshine the financial aspect of any person. A person worthy of introducing to their parents means you have the official stamp of approval. Being mature and considerate towards others feelings also help to keep a healthy relationship. This too I learned over the years. What I tell people nowadays is if you are in a relationship, and you feel it’s going to go sour, still hang in there and let it play out to the very end. Ride the emotional rollercoaster if you have to, but gain the experience. Let it not get you bitter and harsh, but yet, perhaps use what you’ve learned and use it as motivation to succeed in life. Perhaps using rejection as a vehicle to start your own business, or going back to college and finishing your degree. Relationship experience helps to make you a better person towards unexpectedly meeting that special someone that may turn out to be your life soul mate. That’s why I took the success from the person who laughed at me over a decade ago about living at the YMCA to being my own boss and CEO today, because I never gave up. Adversity opens doors of spontaneous opportunity, because hidden blessings await those who endure emotional pain spiritually! So keep on holdin’ on…:-P Send to Facebook
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